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The Mom Psychologist
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Приєднався 14 жов 2019
Are you ready to feel more confident in your parenting, connect with your child in deeper more meaningful ways and reclaim your joy in parenting? Each week Dr. Jazmine reveals her best tips, strategies, and mindsets around positive parenting, child development and mental health. Teaching you how to discipline with clarity and respect, handle tantrums without losing your sanity and potty train like a pro - The Mom Psychologist Show breaks it all down (and so much more) with a new episode each and every week!
How to teach kids about body safety & consent
I don’t know about you but I was never taught about body safety or consent. Let alone my growing body, puberty or sex. It just wasn't the type of conversations I had with my parents. Left to my own devices, friends and media became my biggest teachers.
I don’t want this for my kids.
I want to be involved in helping them understand boundaries, their bodies, and how to keep themselves safe.
I want to give you my 7-step process on teaching kids about body consent and safety.
TIMESTAMPS:
► Introduction- 00:22
► Step 1- 02:04
► Step 2- 03:11
► Step 3- 05:02
► Step 4- 07:24
► Step 5- 08:20
► Step 6- 09:20
► Step 7- 10:57
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I don’t want this for my kids.
I want to be involved in helping them understand boundaries, their bodies, and how to keep themselves safe.
I want to give you my 7-step process on teaching kids about body consent and safety.
TIMESTAMPS:
► Introduction- 00:22
► Step 1- 02:04
► Step 2- 03:11
► Step 3- 05:02
► Step 4- 07:24
► Step 5- 08:20
► Step 6- 09:20
► Step 7- 10:57
FREE DISCIPLINE WORKSHOP
►"How to Get Your Child to Listen Without Yelling” - Learn my proven strategy for getting better cooperation without sacrificing the parent-child relationship OR your sanity! www.themompsychologist.com/workshop
SHOP MY FAVORITES
► Check out my Amazon Storefront and shop my favorites
www.amazon.com/shop/themompsychologist
LET'S BE FRIENDS!
► Instagram: themompsychologist
►Blog: www.themompsychologist.com/blog
► TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@themompsychologist
BUSINESS INQUIRIES ONLY
►hello@themompsychologist.com
DISCLAIMERS: Links included in this description might be affiliate links. All content I create, including this video is for educational purposes ONLY. This is not meant to diagnosis or treat any mental health conditions or substitute mental health treatment in any way. Please consult with your child's pediatrician or a local mental health provider when considering trying new interventions.
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To all the mamas here: I love yall, am praying for yall and would give you all big hugs if I were near you. Im currently going through the clinginess with my 2.5 yr old. Its going to get better❤❤❤ Thank you for this video❤
My son started daytime potty training at 20 months and is now staying dry on his own about half of the time at night at 2 1/2. Im thinking about putting puppy pads under his sheet at night to reduce mess.
Love it, SO SO SO helpful to hear you talk about how play is the childs time to take some control.. so helpful, thank you. I am working with pre-schoolers and I love it that you say "it's their time to SHINE", (obviously within limits of safety), very genius, thank you
My lord he cry’s all the time anything that can help I’m willing to do
What if they are being bullied? Do you think they would just become passive without aggression?
I understand some of this but when I tell my kids nicely to not take their food and eat it on my bed to watch the TV in my room a million times nicely, leading to yelling at them not to eat their because I don't want to sleep in their spilled food at night and they blatantly tell me when I tell them to take their food to the table ,"no! Or FFS! Then end up spilling the food on your bed anyway, it's hard to not get in a range. At 12 and 13 I do expect respect. I expect my rules to be followed...off yoir phones at night, get up on time for school, clean up your own mess, help me when I need it. They do nothing and treat me like I'm their slave and refuse to help with most things because God forbid they would have to get off their devices. I've taken them away and that still doesn't work. I don't ask them to do things beyond their level. I could clean everything spot when I was 8. Our entire house by myself. There's no way kids this age can't do dishes.but they refuse. Because kids these days are entitled little AH.
I remind my children to say thank you. I hope it doesnt count as a handicap, constantly reminding them. My oldest is 9 and I suddenly feel concerned about "thank you" not yet being an automatic response.
Who tf made this?
This may be an absurd question but HOW MUCH attention am i supposed to be giving???? Every moment of the day??? I feel guilty for wanting time for myself and my own hobbies. Am i evil for wanting more than a couple of minutes to myself??? More than just the bare minimum amount of time to do basic hygiene and chores (cooking/cleaning). Am i allowed to want my own time??? On top of the away time thats spent up doing chores. Why must i always feel guilty for that.
This was an awesome review thank you so much. It was so helpful.
Hi moms, I wanted to chime in on this one. I haven’t been able to watch the forced apologies episode but I wanted to contribute. So with forced apologies, yes I think they are fake but how should we mirror kindness without guiding and showing them how to apologize. Also, I think with this situation, I would’ve pulled my child aside and asked her what happened. It would not matter why she spat on someone, I would educate her that that is not nice behavior and that if something is wrong, she needs to tell an adult before she spits or puts hands on someone. I also wonder how old the kiddo was, mine is 6 so this would be appropriate for her but I’m not sure how this would work on a younger child
Thank you so much ❤
He was sleep trained since 6 months now he is doing every 2 hours on some nights. Some nights he is fine
Shes a doll
My daughter is recently having tantrums that are more related to teething pain. If I try and validate her emotions, it seems to make it worse since I'm reminding her of the pain. But any actions, words, etc also seem to escalate things. Any tips?
Thank you so so so so much
My son assaulted me a few days ago and he will be 18 next month, I didn't want to press charges because I didn't want him to get a record. But I'm trying to get him evaluated but that's a whole process and he's in therapy but that's a journey in itself. I told his therapist what happened and honestly I feel that she wasn't helpful or sympathetic. At this point, I'm waiting for him to be 18, so my husband can kick him out. I honestly see no remorse or no guilt.
❤This was my first time visiting your channel and I’m impressed enough to subscribe.😊 I’m a grandmother to a grandchild that lives far away. I’m staying with my daughter and caring for my granddaughter for 3 1/2 weeks while her day home is closed. I’m observing my granddaughters behaviour and experiencing her for the first time for this length of time and wanting to know what’s natural for a-year-old. You provided excellent information and confirmed my intuition as a stay home mother of two. Have shared your video with my daughter in the hopes that your excellent tips will help. 😊
Today i yelled at my kids because I gave them breakfast to eat and they have very limited time for their classes and they were doing chit-chat and didn’t see time and not ready for classes after onwards I got started yelling and my angerness is on beyond my level.
1. "Space please" 2. Express feeling or needs, "I'm hungry" / " I'm frustrated" 3. "That hurts my body" / "I don't like that" 4. "I'm not done playing with that. I'll let you know when I'm done" 5. Boundaries "No, thank you" 6. "Help me, please" 7. "Can I have a turn with that when you're done?" "Turn please" 8. "Can I play with you?" 9a. Ask permission, body boundaries "Can I give you a hug, kiss, etc?" 9b. "I'll give you a high five instead, blow kisses, etc" 10. "I need more time" / "I'm not done yet" 11. "I need a break"
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It makes it hard too follow the golden rule
The way you were READY to show your book 🤣🙏🏼 Seriously thank you for all you’ve said. I found you perfectly. I’ve been struggling with my strong willed toddlers 🤡
The UA-cam shows that are cheap AI graphics with no education are killing me! My toddler watches a video of an animated tractor rolling balls around for as long as you let him, it's awful!
Can you make more videos about teenagers please? ❤
what about if they being doing in diapers and we try to elimate the diaper and now he wont do it:/ wont be bad for this body? he didnt do it all day🥹🥹
Thank you
My toddler had an epic meltdown because I sent dada to the store.
I can't find app two?
Mindfulness. Thank you so much!
I hear most people will say dont do pull ups as they feel just like diapers, but what if i just put my child in underwear and will still pee in them? What am i suppose to do at that point?
This is so helpful. My daughter is about to turn 3 this month. For the past two weeks she's been very aggressive and angry when things doesnt go her way and when I dont give in to her. She gets very overwhelmed with her emotions and i do also. It seems like her emotions just flips from what im used to with her personality as she is about to turn 3. How do I help regulate her emotions when shes dealing with the agression and melt downs. Also is this a thing as they trans into being 3. I know not all child are the same? Will this phase ends eventually??.
Thanks for sharing. Loved watching this and going to try to implement some with my boys.
Great video, try our maths game aswell! Thanks for making the video!
Do these work without Wi-Fi?
I was led here because I’m trying to do this night time sleep, I have been awaking my 3.5 yr old daughter up but I’m so tired. If I don’t wake her she just wees in her bed anyway. Maybe she physically isn’t ready 🫣. I feel less anxious now thank you
Where does unconditional love turn into enabling i.e. Mackenzie Shirilla?
I'm really finally ready to limit screen time for my kids (5 and 10)! But my issue is in the afternoons when im working from home and my kids get home from school, they usually watch screens while im still working and getting my husband on board with limited screen time
I blow up when I’m overestimated and I feel like such a bad parent for this.
Thank you for the great tips!!!
3 mins in and you are not to the point yet. I’m done.
Wow this was fantastic
my mom told me she started dipping mine in some chilli or black pepper so i tried it twice and then never wanted to see it again 😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you! I would like to suggest a topic. Can you make a video on how to make transitions between activities easier for toddlers?
Thank you for sharing all this valuable information! I teach PreK and was looking for videos to share with our parents to help them out. Thank you Dr. Jazmine!
Thank you for this!
Thank you!
Thank you for this. I literally stopped my 3 year old from watching a show that had themes that did not align with our family values. She has been asking why she can’t watch it and this has been super helpful
BLUEY is a double sided coin for me personally. Of course it is cute & has very sweet, touching relatable moments….. but it also has snarky replies from the kids, not a lot of realistic discipline from the parents, and the squealing laughter 🙉 ugh. Does anyone else feel this way about this super popular show? I get why people love it, and have enjoyed it but don’t let my kids watch multiple episodes of it in a row anymore. Of Behaviors are so influential!
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